Positive Singles Review

Rating CriteriaRating
Chance of getting a date4.5
Privacy protection5
Customer service5
Value for money5
STD support5
Overall Rating4.9 /5


There are a few reasons why PositiveSingles is the best STD dating site around. The site has been helping people find STD support and love since 2002 and has over 60,000 success stories. It is hard not to get excited when you are on PositiveSingles because it offers so many features and benefits. In reality, while you can meet interesting and compatible singles, you can also find a lot of support through the blogs, forums, and chat room, which makes this website a welcoming place to go for anyone who has an STD. In short, PositiveSingles offers you a place where you can meet like-minded people who are looking for friendships and romantic relationships.

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The signup is very similar to any other dating site. You enter a lot of the usual information, such as name, password, age, height, location, and email address; however, it also has a mandatory field to choose which type of STD you are living with. While there are many common STDs listed, you can also choose ‘other’ if you do not find your STD on the list. Alternatively, if you have more than one STD, you can select more than one by holding down your control button (Ctrl) and then clicking on each STD listed.

Lastly, you fill in a profile headline, an ‘about me’ section, a bit about who you are looking for, and then upload your profile picture. Uploading the picture is optional, but if you are going to get serious on the site, you will want to upload it eventually. You will find that almost everyone on PositiveSingles is looking for other STD singles has uploaded a picture.


If you want to move beyond a free membership to a paid membership, which offers a lot of extra benefits, you will need to select 1 of 3 memberships. No matter which membership you choose, it will automatically be re-billed until you cancel it. You can also turn off your auto-renewal on your subscription status page.

The following prices are in USD, so you will have to convert them to your currency.

  • For a 1-month membership, you pay $29.95, which works out to $1.00 per day.
  • For a 3-month membership, you pay $59.95, which works out to $19.95 per month.
  • For a 6-month membership, you pay $95.95, which works out to $15.95 per month.

Your statement will say SuccessfulMatch instead of PositiveSingles to maintain a sense of privacy.

Unique Features

This first feature is for gold members only; however, I had to mention it as a unique feature because it is a very handy feature to have on an STD dating site. It is a ‘quick exit’ button, which allows members to redirect their page quickly to another website to ensure that someone walking in (who happens to be a little nosy) doesn’t see that they are on PositiveSingles. Quick Exit is a great feature to have for someone who lives in a home with multiple people who do not need to know such personal details.

One of the great things is that PositiveSingles offers members a lot of support too. Through the use of the support forum and blogs, many people find others to talk to and relate to. During the entire review, I noticed that the forum was an incredibly active forum that discusses more than just dating or living with an STD. I’ve noticed a lot of talk about current events, which shows just how active the community is! And if you find someone you are interested in while participating in the blogs or forum, you can just click their usernames to learn more about them, email them, send them a wink, add them to your favorites, or comment on their profile.

There is also a live chat room for members. Inside the chat room, you can privately chat with someone as well, which makes this an extra special feature to get to know someone of interest.

Lastly, a unique feature is called Ask Dating Adviser, this allows you to talk to someone through chat or email and ask about any concerns or questions you may have. You can even discuss issues you are having, such as emotional or psychological issues. This feature is the ultimate in customer service, and it makes PositiveSingles stand out among the STD dating sites.

Features for all members:

  • Send birthday or greeting cards
  • Ask for support through live chat
  • Reply to online chat or emails
  • Send free winks
  • Use standard search features
  • Add up to 26 pictures
  • Verify your age, income, photo, occupation, or education
  • Read all information regarding STDs, including stories, locations, and legal information
  • Participate on blogs and forums

Features for gold members only:

  • Full mobile site access
  • Full App access
  • Talk to a dating adviser through chat
  • Send emails to other members
  • Check if other members read your sent mail
  • Do an advanced search with special filters
  • Look for verified or gold members only
  • View last login time of members
  • Remove members from your search
  • Show up above others in searches
  • Become highlighted in searches
  • Create a private album
  • Get access to a ‘quick exit’ button that allows you to switch screens quickly
  • Get priority customer care

Safety and Privacy

PositiveSingles does not do background checks on its members. While you may find that members are verified for various things, this does not guarantee your safety if a member is planning to do malicious things with other members on the site. It is always best or practice online dating safety, such as keeping personal information private and only meeting users in a public place.

Your privacy is of importance for PositiveSingles. All information regarding your privacy is clearly laid out in their privacy policy.

Which STD Singles Does PositiveSingles Cater To?

PositiveSingles caters to more than just people who have herpes. You will find that people living with hepatitis, chlamydia, syphilis, thrush, gonorrhea, and HIV. Furthermore, you can contact support to ask them to add your particular STD to the list. Therefore, PositiveSingles is meant for anyone who is living with an STD, regardless of what it is.


There is the option to verify your photo on PositiveSingles. Why would you want to?

  • Let others know you mean business and are serious
  • Move your profile above others in the search results page

There are three different methods to verify:

  1. Uploading the required information directly
  2. Emailing the required information to support
  3. Faxing the necessary information to their fax number listed on the page where you verify

To verify your photo and age, use one of the above methods and send in a valid piece of photo ID, including a driver’s license, state ID card, passport, or military ID.

When you are verified, a verified icon will be shown on your profile.

User Scale

PositiveSingles boasts that there are over 15,000 members actively participating on the site each day and that there are more than 120,000 conversations per day. Every forum and blog that I checked out had been updated recently from actively participating members, and the activity on the site was apparent. Furthermore, the chat room was alive and buzzing!

According to Alexa, PositiveSingles has an audience from all over the world, with the United States coming it at half of its members. It is interesting that there is also a right balance between female and male visitors, as many dating sites can be heavy on one gender or another. And, the majority of the audience is college educated. I’ve found that scrolling through the members proved this to be true as well.


The search process has usual questions about who you are seeking, including age, gender, and region; however, as a gold member, there are more specific options, including an option to disclose what kind of STD your ideal match is living with. Options include herpes type 1, herpes type 2, HPV, HIV, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, and gonorrhea. There is also an option to click on ‘other’ if the STD is not listed.

In my filtered searches, I receive over 25 pages worth of members with pictures!

The search filters for gold members includes interesting things, such as new members, compatible matches, reverse matches, living with STD, and recommended members. It even lets you search according to astrological signs, and this makes it easy to find someone specific to your requirements.

STD Support And News

As said, you can communicate with other members and receive support through forum and blog posting. I’ve read more than one review, and this is the number one compliment it consistently receives. Everyone agrees that PositiveSingles offers the best support around.

You will also find over 1400 inspirational stories and over 500 treatment stories (as of this review). You can’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of support and community when you read these stories. Moreover, there is a section devoted to general information of different STDs, including legal information as well as testing centers.

Lastly, there is a Q&A section where you can search for questions and answers that you may have, or ask a question. The service is confidential and anonymous, and you can ask questions regarding STDs, dating, or emotional and psychological issues.

Customer Service

The customer service is outstanding. Not only can you reach out for a general question, such as account information, you can also reach out to a live dating adviser if you are a gold member. A dating counselor is available for live chat Mon-Thu from 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm EST. PositiveSingles contact number is 1-416-628-1072, you can call them for help.


If you want to meet other people with an STD, then PositiveSingles is the place to do it. Not only will you meet other STD singles who are looking for friendship, dating, and more, but you will also join a community of people who share something in common and are actively talking about it and supporting each other.

The features are amazing and very conducive to helping you find a perfect match. Inside the blogs, forum, and chat room, you are sure to meet some people that interest you.

In short, PositiveSingles offers you an affordable way to meet up with like-minded people who are also actively looking for relationships! You can’t beat that when it comes to a dating site.

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